It might have been originally designed to console and comfort my weary mind and I truly am mega-happy today. It looks like the super-duper method of handling ADHD students, both YL and teens, has eventually been worked out.
Only, what could I bring next time - the piano?
Summing up - it does pay to spend more time on myself and the household than just work
And, no wonder he - 'one who came to love suffering' - would love martyrdom, it's becoming so clear now.